The RAE says: Physical or spiritual enjoyment or satisfaction produced by the realization or perception of something that is liked or considered good.
With this concept we can begin to get an idea of how much pleasure can be expanded, reaching corners that many of us do not even imagine.
Because “something that we like” varies SO MUCH from person to person, and not only that, but within each one of us, what we like can change from one day to the next, or also depending on where or with whom we are.
Something that gives me immense pleasure may be of indifference to you or even cause rejection.
For me, discovering someone else’s pleasure is one of the reasons why sharing with a new person is so exciting; because there is no map drawn, there is no established path, but rather each one advances discovering sensations, measuring reactions, playing, experimenting… exploring.
And exploring other bodies is one of my favorite things to do when it comes to having an intimate encounter. Not sticking to the already boring pre-established plan that we see in movies or porn; but truly taking on the task of discovering together those things that make us feel.
Being present and truly open to connect.
It’s a game!
The tip of a finger sliding VERY slowly down the middle of your back. Hands finding the hidden bones of your pelvis and hips. French kisses on your elbow. A gaze held for seconds that seem like hours. Putting your face between their buttocks. Caresses on the back of your knees. Synchronizing your breathing. Discovering smells and textures. Daring to open your hips like you’ve never done before. Dancing naked. Smiles of complicity. A good massage. Some spankings. A hug that fills you with calm.
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And taking the time to play. I think it’s the most fun and exciting thing. Being open to discovering things about your own body and your partner’s that you never even imagined; pleasure points that would have never occurred to you. And not only that, but also rhythms, pressures, temperatures, sounds, smells… It’s a whole world of infinite fun.
These are moments that make you see your reality from another perspective. We tend to be so used to living with our own body that we sometimes forget that it has a lot of new things to teach us and make us feel. Therefore, never forget to give it new sensations, that way, you will never stop being surprised.
So, hopefully…
Pleasure in intimate encounters is not limited to genitalia and you dare to connect in countless ways, letting yourself be carried away by the pleasure that this entails.
